Gardening with garlic

28/10/2024

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I love gardening, it's a natural mood booster and a hugely rewarding activity. I only have a small garden but every year I plant veggies and herbs to eat and make the most of the small space, I love being out in the fresh air and connecting with nature. Gardening has been a learning process of what does and doesn't work, of trial and error. Last year I had a bounty of onions and garlic so thought I would share five fascinating facts about garlic in the garden.


Plant Garlic for a Spring/Summer Harvest

In terms of timing, autumn planting garlic for the spring/summertime is best. It is important to plant your garlic before the ground freezes so that cloves can establish roots and then go dormant over the winter months, resulting in bigger, more flavourful bulbs in the spring/summer. Garlic is also an easy crop that requires minimal maintenance over the cold period.


Extend Your Growing Season

Winter gardening allows you to extend your growing season with cold-hardy plants. Along with garlic, you can grow spinach, kale, and winter lettuce in cold frames or greenhouses, which can give you fresh produce even when it is cold outside. It is worth learning about companion planning, which involves pairing plants close together for mutual benefit - this could involve flowers near crops to attract pollinating insects. There are various combinations that can work well together during the colder months.



Improve Soil Health

In addition to being a delicious ingredient, garlic can be an excellent crop for soil health. This is because it has a deep root system that breaks up compacted soil, allowing for better drainage. Additionally, it has natural pest-repellent properties, which can deter soil pests and benefit the garden eco-system. Here are a few other natural pest repellents for your garden.



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Combat Winter Blues

Many people struggle with their mental health during the winter months, which is understandable. Gardening can be an excellent way to combat your winter blues as it encourages time in nature, which is proven to be beneficial for physical and mental health. Additionally, it is an active hobby and one that can be highly rewarding. Getting outside and tending to garlic and other winter-hardy plants provides a sense of accomplishment and a connection to nature, even in colder weather.


People often spend a lot more time inside during the winter months, which can lead to cabin fever. Gardening allows you to spend more time outdoors (even just in the garden), which can make a huge difference to your well-being.


As you can see, garlic is a great plant to grow in your garden at this time of the year. Not only is this one of the tastiest and most commonly used ingredients in many dishes, but it is also a plant that can be rewarding to grow and could even improve the health of your garden as well as give you a mental health boost during the colder months of the year.


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5 family friendly ski resorts for all budgets

27/10/2024

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I love to snowboard & have been lucky to snowboard at some fantastic resorts such as Val d'Isère and Kitzbühel, but besides a few dry slope sessions here and there, I haven't gone since having kids. While hitting the slopes is great for any age, even when they are toddlers, I felt they would benefit from being a little older to get the most out of it as it's not something I would be able to budget for regularly. 

But now that both boys are older I am looking more seriously into a snowboarding trip at some point and thought I would share 5 resorts perfect for families in different budgets that are great ski and snowboard destinations for families in mind. 


1. Poiana-Brasov, Romania

While Romania may not be well known for its slopes it may come as a welcome surprise to find out that they offer fantastic mountain resorts at one of the most budget-friendly prices in Europe. Poiana Brasov is the largest resort with more than 24km of ski runs with blue, red and black, meaning all abilities can enjoy, all in stunning fairytale location. 

If you fancy a day away from the slopes you can go to the medieval city of Brasov and Dracula's castle for a unique family travel experience. 

A week ski lift pass will come in at around £120 per adult, with cheaper rates for children. 


Poiana-Brasov
Beautiful Poiana-Brasov


2.  Bardonecchia, Italy

Despite this resort being in Italy, it comes up as a very budget-friendly option for families and it's easy to get to from the UK. Bardonecchia is one of the lesser-known resorts but that makes this somewhat of a gem as it's a great place to avoid crowds and there is lots to do in and around the resort. 

There are lots of runs for all different abilities as well as an alpine coaster which kids love and why not give snowshoe walking a go? 

A 7 day ski pass is roughly £176 for an adult and £70 for a child. 


Bardonecchia, Italy
Bardonecchia, Italy


3. Bansko, Bulgaria

Bulgaria has slowly grown in popularity as a budget-friendly destination with excellent slopes. Bansko is the largest ski area in the country and has a great mix of runs as well as a dedicated kids ski area. There are also plenty of cheap food options and lots to do on the resort and off to keep families entertained. 

A 6 day ski lift pass costs around £234 for adults and £91 for kids


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The slopes of Bansko



4. Vogel, Slovenia

This modern ski resort is great for families and in a really beautiful area overlooking Lake Bohinj in the Triglav National Park. This resort is suitable for both beginners and experienced skiers and with 22km of slopes, Vogel is one of the largest in Slovenia. 

A 5 day ski lift pass is £163 for adults and £81


5. Verbier, Switzerland

While Verbier may be on the pricier side it's well worth it when you have access to one of Europes largest and most sought-after ski destinations which truly offers something for everyone. It boasts more than 80 lifts and over 400km of world class runs and best of all is beginners and intermediate skiers can access 80% of those runs and the added bonus of truly picturesque views and snow-capped mountains. You can also easily transfer from Geneva to Verbier,  making an easy city to fly into or explore for the day. 

6 day ski lift passes for adults start at £356


Verbier, Switzerland


I've shared more tips on what you need to pack for a family skiing in this post.  If you or your kids haven't skied or snowboarded before then I would strongly encourage that you do a few lessons in the UK before you go, that way. you can get the most out of your time on the real slopes. The UK has lots of dry slope options, while not the same as real snow, you can get a grasp of the basics. We also have 4 indoor slopes in the UK with man-made snow and is the closest you can get to real skiing. It's always better to spend a weekend at one of the indoor or dry slopes getting to grips with the basics and heading to Europe feeling a little more prepared. 

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How to Plan an Autumn Wedding

26/10/2024

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Are you dreaming of a wedding surrounded by warm-coloured landscapes and filled with a cosy atmosphere? An autumn event could be the perfect option for you. Blend the charm of classical autumnal décor with seasonal modern trends to make the day feel both stylish and personal.

Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a grand celebration, the guide offers ideas and advice to make your nuptials truly memorable.

Choose a Venue and a Date

Immerse yourself and your guests in the autumnal landscape by selecting the right venue. This could be outdoor spaces like woodlands or rustic barns where seasonal elements can be easily incorporated into the décor.

Autumn in the UK is known for cool and sometimes wet weather, so a flexible setup with indoor options is essential.

Embrace a Bold Colour Palette

Merge traditional earthy tones with vibrant accents to create the perfect autumnal colour palette for your wedding. Opt for colours like burnt orange, rich gold, and maroon to reflect the hues of the changing seasons. Complement these shades with deep green or sapphire to add elegance and intensity to the event’s interior.

You can incorporate these colours into many elements on the big day, like floral arrangements and tablescapes, to create a cohesive look that feels both warm and polished.



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Consider Guest Attire

As the nights draw in, the temperature starts to drop, and celebrations that continue into the evening can be chilly. That’s why its thoughtful to give your guests guidance on seasonally appropriate attire that can serve as an accessory to the autumnal theme.

Wedding guest dresses in darker colours, textured fabrics, and long sleeves will keep guests comfortable while also complementing the autumn hues throughout the day. Make sure to include a note in the invitations if you and your partner-to-be have a preferred attire.


Add Textured Decor

Create a cosy atmosphere by adding textures and layers. Think velvet runners, wooden details, and plush seating that add warmth and depth to the furnishing style.

A candlelit setting or even a fireplace will enhance the venue’s overall glow to create the perfect backdrop for your special day – picture twinkling lights in all of your photos!


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Serve a Seasonal Menu with Comforting Flavours

To complement the amber hues and cosy design, include the season’s culinary offerings for a memorable menu. As well as being an eco-friendly approach for your catering choices, the warming autumnal options will work well on particularly chillier days.

Dishes like butternut squash soup, root vegetables, and hearty mains can be customised to suit a high-end affair, or you can keep them rustic and comforting.

Add a festive touch to the reception with a signature cocktail made from apple cider or spiced gin to allow everyone to truly savour all the menu’s flavours.


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What to do in Switzerland for a Weekend Getaway

23/10/2024

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I've been lucky enough to visit Switzerland three times and I still have a yearning to go back and see more as it's a land of towering mountains, crystal-clear lakes and charming villages and you can see why it's a popular destination for weekend getaways no matter what time of year you choose to visit.

Whether you're seeking adventure, relaxation or cultural immersion, Switzerland has it all. In this post we we'll explore some of the best things to do and places to visit during your weekend break.

Hike the Swiss Alps

One of the most iconic experiences in Switzerland is hiking through the breathtaking Swiss Alps.

With thousands of kilometres of well-maintained trails, there's something for all ages and abilities to enjoy. From easy strolls to challenging treks, there's a hike to suit your fitness and interests.

Some of the most popular hiking destinations include Zermatt, Interlaken and Grindelwald – it’s advisable to plan a hiking trip during the warmer months when you’ll encounter better weather conditions.


Hiking Switzerland


Hiking tips:

Always check the weather forecast before heading out

Wear appropriate clothing and footwear

Bring plenty of water and snacks

Let someone know where you're going and when you expect to be back

Go skiing

Switzerland is renowned for its world-class ski resorts, offering slopes for all levels of skiers and snowboarders. Whether you're a seasoned pro or a beginner, you'll find the perfect ski experience in Switzerland. Some of the most popular resorts for ski weekends in Switzerland include Leysin, Zermatt, St Moritz and Verbier.


Skiing Switzerland



Skiing tips:

Book your accommodation and ski passes in advance, especially during peak season

Take lessons if you're a beginner

Dress in layers to stay warm on the slopes

Don't forget to wear sunscreen, even on cloudy days


Visit Lucerne, one of the prettiest cities in the world

I was lucky enough to visit Lucerne as a teen with my parents and it's still one of my favourite travel memories as it's such a beautiful place to explore. Located in the centre of Switzerland it's a great starting point to exploring the rest of the country and is nestled between lakes and mountains, having a lot to offer historically, culturally and socially. 

Must visit spots int Lucerne are The Chapel Bridge, a beautiful covered wooden footbridge spanning the river Reuss. The Lion Monument, a moving piece of stone set in a stunning location. The Museum of Transport in Lucerne is a must-visit if you are looking to spend a fun-filled day delving into Swiss culture and history. 

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Ride the Glacier Express

The Glacier Express is a scenic train journey that takes you through the Swiss Alps from Zermatt to St Moritz. The train travels through tunnels, over bridges and past stunning glaciers, offering breathtaking views of the surrounding landscape. The journey takes approximately 8 hours, but it offers an incredible opportunity to fully immerse yourself in Switzerland’s natural beauty.

These are just a few of the many things you can do during your weekend getaway in Switzerland. With its stunning scenery and diverse activities, Switzerland is sure to provide you with an unforgettable experience.


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Explore the city of Zurich

Zurich is possibly one of my favourite cities in Europe, not only is it pristinely clean with excellent public transport but wandering through the Old town and along the shores of Lake Zurich is breathtaking. Despite Switzerland being quite an expensive destination, this city offers a lot for free, including free bike hire!

There is also a ton of free museums to explore as well as the Zoo and botanical gardens, which are great spots for families.

I really hope to visit Switzerland again soon, have you been?


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Looking After Your Home As A Frequent Traveller

21/10/2024

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I feel very lucky that I am able to travel fairly frequently and I know before you even leave your front door you have to do a lot of preparation, not only for the trip itself but also in making sure to keep your home safe while your away. 

Travel is, as many might say, food for the soul and can have a real positive effect on our overwell wellbeing and there are a host of mental health benefits associated with travel. Whether you travel regularly for work or for leisure, chances are you value your time away just as much as you value your time at home. Although as important as travel may be to you, it’s easy to lose sight of the risks that come with it.

While we often plan for potential travel delays, one less-considered risk relates to the safety and condition of your home while you’re away. Your home doesn’t just freeze in place after you jet off and failure to properly prepare for being away so often can to costly consequences. So, with this in mind, what are some essential ways you can ensure your home is well-looked after during extensive and frequent periods of travel?

1. Security Measures

First, let’s tackle the most obvious, the risk of theft. With no one home, there is a potential of burglaries. If you’re leaving your home empty for extended periods of time, it may be worthwhile investing in some deterrents, such as a home alarm. Smart cameras and doorbell systems are great for this, as you can monitor them from your smartphone wherever you are, automatic outdoor lights are also a good buy. It is also worth telling someone you trust, perhaps a neighbour, family or friend, to check up on your house when your away, maybe visit once or twice to turn the lights on or off and to make it look like it's not just standing empty.


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2. Routine Maintenance Tasks Before You Travel

It's also worth making sure that your appliances are well maintained and regular upkeep is essential to preventing long-term damage while you're away. This is especially true for your central heating, which could freeze over if away while winter starts, or which could even spring a leak – water or gas.

It’s key that you organise routine maintenance, including your annual visit from a gas-safe engineer. If you suspect your boiler’s nearing the end of its lifespan, now might be a good time to scout new boilers before you incur more costly emergency expenses.

3. Managing Utilities Efficiently While Away

Even if your appliances are working as they should, you can encounter difficulties of a different kind. Keeping your home ticking over means priming your central heating to engage for a small amount of time each week, to ensure your pipes don’t freeze over – and may also require you to leave some appliances on standby for security. 

This can cost money, though, so shrewd management of your utilities elsewhere is important. Fixing leaky taps can save massively on water, if you’re on a metered supply; smart plugs can give you remote control over your devices too, and ensure you aren’t using energy you don’t need to use.

4. Don't advertise that you're away

If you're not having a family friend to stay at your house while your away then don't advertise that over social media. If opportunists see your social media posts and know you're not going to be home, it's an invitation to people to damage or burgle your property. As said before it's worth chatting to your neighbours and letting them know your away or getting someone to house-sit. 


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5 Easy Ways to Stay Active Without the Gym

15/10/2024

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Are you looking for ways to stay active without going to the gym? The gym is not for everyone, but there are many other ways that you can stay active to boost your physical and mental well-being. Keep reading to discover five great gym alternatives that will help you get enough exercise and achieve your goals.


1. Take Daily Walks in Nature

Walking is one of the most underrated forms of exercise. Additionally, as a low-impact activity, it is suitable for all ages and can help you be more active without risk of injuring yourself and we all know the benefits of being outdoors in nature. Walking can improve cardiovascular health, boost mental well-being, and fit easily into your routine, whether it's a short stroll around your local park or a weekend hike. A sturdy pair of walking boots can make outdoor walks more comfortable, especially on rough or uneven terrain.



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2. Get Active at Home with Bodyweight Exercises

You don’t even have to leave the home to get a good workout in. There are lots of excellent bodyweight exercises that you can do anywhere and without any extra equipment, including lunges, sit-ups, squats, and pushups. These are all activities that can help build your core strength and endurance as well as attain a more chiselled physique.


3. Embrace an active commute

Many people struggle to find the time to exercise, especially when they work full-time but if you live within walking or cycling distance of work, take advantage of that. Cycling is not only a great way to increase your fitness but it's also a very sustainable and budget-friendly mode of transport. This can enhance your daily physical activity, reduce your environmental impact, and save you money on travel costs.


4. Try a new fun hobby

I love being active but I don't like the gym, so having fun hobbies that keep me moving are key. I love to skateboard, surf and hike, all of these are really enjoyable and social so if never feels like a workout but at it's core they are. It could be joining a running club or trying out a group yoga lesson or giving SUP a go for the firs time. It's a great way to meet new friends as well as improve your overall physical and mental well-being. 

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5. Incorporate Movement Breaks Into Your Day

People often spend long periods of time sitting, which can be harmful to your health in a few ways. Therefore, incorporating short movement breaks into your day is important to break up sedentary behaviour and keep your energy levels up. This can include standing up, stretching, and taking a short walk every 30 minutes or so.


If you want to be more active but don't like the idea of going to the gym, these are a few great alternative activities. It is important that everyone has activities that they enjoy doing to get enough exercise each week. When you are able to exercise regularly, it can make a huge difference to both your physical and mental well-being.



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5 lesser know waterfalls in South Wales

11/10/2024

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If you love the outdoors and are travelling to Wales you may have already heard of Waterfall Country on the edge of the Bannau Brycheiniog National Park where you will find the famous Four Falls trail. While the Four falls trail is famous for a reason and very beautiful it's also extremely popular and busy, especially in summer. There are however 5 other equally beautiful lesser known waterfalls, some fairly close by, that offer stunning views without the crowds and I thought I would share them with you.

1. Pen Pych Waterfall

Located near the small village of Blaencwm in the Rhonnda Valley, Pen Pych is one of my favourite walks and while there are some steep areas that you will need to take care navigating, it's a walk my kids have done since they were young. There is a free and well-marked forestry car park with the path leading up from there. You will find picnic benches at the halfway point and some fantastic viewpoints across the Valley along the way. Do take proper hiking boots as the trail can become wet and slippery in some areas. Read more about this hike here


Pen Pych waterfall
Pen Pych Waterfall


2. Clydach Vale Countrypark, Tonypandy, Top Lake

You can start this walk at either the lower car park for a longer circular trail or head up to the upper lake for a short wander to this somewhat hidden fall. As you make your way around the lake, on the left hand side, you will see a path heading up and this will take you to the larger fall which is best seen after rain. There is also a monument to the mine  that once stood near here. 


Clydach waterfall
Clydach Vale Counrypark Waterfall


3. Melincourt Waterfall

A really impressive waterfall that is a short 10 min walk from the free carpark. There are some steep areas along the one side of the path so do take care when walking with young children, besides that it's an easy walk that is well rewarded with a stunning waterfall. What I love about this place is everytime we have gone we are the only people there. You can read more about this waterfall here.


Melincourt Waterfall


4. Pistyll-Goleu, Llanwanno

There is a lovely circular walk through the beautiful and ancient St Gwynno Forest in Llanwonno that takes you past the hidden gem that Pistyll-Goleu waterfall. You can also find a small cafe in the woods, which is run by volunteers. Again this place is very quite and it's usually locals and dog walkers who explore the trails here. 


Pistyll-Goleu waterfall


5. The Witches pool at Pwll-y-Wrach Nature Reserve

Near the small village of Talgarth you will find the Pwll-y-Wrach Nature Reserve, set in a narrow valley, this place feels magical. As you make your way through the reserve you will come across a few small waterfalls before coming across a much larger and rather spectacular one that has a deep pool below it known as the "Witches Pool" from which the reserve gets its name. It can get quite muddy and skippy here so best to take a good pair of walking boots.


Pwll-y-Wrach waterfall



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Is Singapore a family friendly destination?

10/10/2024

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Is Singapore a family-friendly destination? With the travel and tourism market set to grow even more in Singapore in the coming years and with more families travelling further afield and broadening their horizons, it's a good question and the answer, simply, is YES

So what makes Singapore a family-friendly destination and why should it be on your bucket list?

1. Well firstly it was ranked first in Asia for family life in the Expat Insider 2019 Family Life index, of course living somewhere and travelling to it for a holiday are two different experiences but I think it gives a good insight that it's a family-focused city.  

2. Transportation and ease of getting around - Singapore has a very reliable MRT system which is cheap and easy to use, as well as an efficient public bus network that again is a cheap option for getting around. The city is also pretty small and well known for it's brilliant urban planning that makes a lot of the city walkable with a network of pedestrian walkways and lush green spaces to explore. 

3. Family-friendly places to eat - there is an array of family-friendly spots to grab a bite to eat, from the local dishes at hawker centres across the city to themed cafes, hangouts and restaurants offering tasty treats for all diets. 


Singapore family


 4. Family-friendly places to stay - the city offers fantastic hotel options that are not only suitable for families but also offer parents space to relax. When looking to make a Singapore hotel booking you will be spoilt for choice as many welcome families while also offering spa facilities, casual dining spaces you can all enjoy, having a nice glass of wine on a terrace while the kids enjoy views across the city. 

5. An array of family-friendly attractions - there are some incredible days out to be had in Singapore that are perfect for families. From interactive museums to Gardens by the Bay, Nature reserves, Aquariums, Zip-line adventures, it's has it all. I've previous written a blog post on the top 5 things to do in Singapore so do check it out. 

6. Lots of outdoor green spaces

Singapore is filled with natural green and lush spaces wiaitn to be explored, from tropical mangroves to beautiful coasts, there is plenty of places for the children to run off some energy as well as getting out there and enjoying the sunshine that bit beautiful city has to offer. 


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Best dogs for active families: Finding the perfect fit

09/10/2024

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Dogs are such a special addition to any family. Furry balls of fun running around can enhance family life, get everyone outside for exercise, and provide lots of laughter and love.

Finding the right fit for your family can be challenging, though. You want a breed that can match the activity levels of your family whilst still creating companionship. Here are ten of the best breeds for active families.

Labrador Retriever

One of the most popular breeds in the UK, Labradors are all-around winners. Their versatility and friendly nature mean they are perfect for families with children. If you are a group that likes hiking, running, and outdoor play, then expect a labrador to join you on your adventures happily!

Border Collie

Border Collies are known for being highly intelligent animals with incredible stamina. As such, they are an ideal match for families who enjoy being outdoors for long periods. You could even start a new family activity of agility training, which Border Collies absolutely love.


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Beagle

Beagles may not be an obvious choice when it comes to adding a furry friend to your pack, but their size doesn’t mean they aren’t as active. Beagles have incredible stamina and a love for exploring, which is great for countryside walks.

Golden Retriever

Similar to the Labrador Retriever, Golden Retrievers have a good balance between playfulness and gentleness, which makes them good for families who haven’t had dogs before. Golden Retrievers are just as happy having a game of fetch in the garden as they are embarking on long hikes – just remember they will need a large nap and meal afterwards!

Dalmatian

Made popular by the blockbuster Disney film, Dalmatians are spotted balls of boundless energy. Their love of running makes them the perfect companion if you are marathon training or a long-distance enthusiast. As a high-energy breed, they need a proper diet to keep them going. Look into sensitive dog food if you have a pup with tummy troubles.

Whippet

If you have seen a Whippet when in the park, you will know just how speedy these canines can be. Don’t let this put you off, as Whippets can be docile and cuddly at home too. These doggy pals will fit into families who do small bursts of activities such as jogging or playing fetch.


Whippet


Springer Spaniel

When you think of dogs with bundles of energy, Springer Spaniels might leap into your mind. Strong hunting instincts make these pups ideal for rural walks, as they can explore using their nose and have great adventures.

Jack Russell Terrier

What Jack Russel Terriers lack in size they make up for with energy and determination. Fiercely loyal, these dogs are always on the move, which helps to encourage the whole family to be active and play.

Vizsla

Hailing from Hungary originally, Vizslas are easily identified by their sleek russet coats, which are perfect for foraging throughout hedgerows and forests. Cyclists may enjoy the company of a Vizsla as they love running and need a lot of exercise to stay happy.

German Shepherd

German Shepherds are iconic for their loyalty and strength, but these gentle giants do love to play too. They are highly intelligent and, like Border Collies, really benefit from agility training to keep them occupied. You could also get them involved in protection training, making them the ideal companion for the whole family.


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3 Tips for Sharing Wardrobe Space with Family or Significant Other

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As a child, you were taught to share with others, a good life skill that is needed into adulthood. As an adult, there should be nobody easier to share with than our significant other, child or family member. Yet when it comes to something like wardrobe space, which for most of our lives has been ours and ours alone, suddenly having to share it can come as a shock.

I live in a very small home, space is limited, so at the moment I'm sharing my larger wardrobe with one of my children and yes we make it work but it did take time to adjust, in the same way it would if your sharing yours with a partner for the first time. 

It also brings challenges with it. It is almost certain that one of you will have more things than the other. Then, there will likely be disagreements over how things should be stored. You might also have different needs, for example, if one of you just wants to find what you need quickly, sling it on and get out the door, while the other likes to take time getting dressed.

Rather than each person just doing their own thing, which can be a recipe for resentment, it is better to discuss how your wardrobe space will work when you first move in together. This quick guide offers some pointers to follow for pain-free sharing.

1. Declutter before you begin

If you already have a wardrobe that you are going to share, empty it out first and start donating or binning items which you haven’t worn in forever or which are damaged. Your partner should do the same. If you are both moving to somewhere where you will be sharing a wardrobe, doing this first will also make moving easier.

Removing clutter will help prevent any pointless disagreements over wardrobe space.



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2. Organise around your habits

It is worth discussing things such as your morning routines and which items you wear regularly to help you figure out where to best store particular items. For example, if you both need to get dressed for work at the same time, it might be best to each have your own side of the wardrobe so that you are not constantly getting in each other’s way.

Clothes you do not wear regularly may be best stored in harder-to-reach spots, or if it is the wrong season you might want to store them somewhere else entirely. For example, your winter jackets and sweaters could be stored under the bed during spring and summer.

3. Make the most of the space

The shelves, racks, and drawers that the wardrobe manufacturer has supplied you with are only a starting point. There are plenty of ways you use your wardrobe space more efficiently. If there are too few drawers, buy some dividers and you can share the space while keeping things like men’s and womens underwear separate.

If your wardrobe has doors that swing rather than slide open, put some hooks on the inside. To make better use of shelves, put stackable containers on them. In fact, containers or even shoe boxes can be good places to store accessories like scarves, belts, and hats when you’re low on space. Labelling them can make it easier to find what you need in a rush.


Sharing space is a necessity for most couples, and there is no reason that it needs to cause trouble. By following these tips you can build a harmonious wardrobe and ensure that your partner’s wishes and yours are respected.



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The Emotional Impact of Divorce on Parents

08/10/2024

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There can be many reasons why a couple decide to end their marriage and often its for the best of everyone involved, however that doesn't mean it's easy by any measure. Whatever it is that triggers divorce proceedings, it can be a particularly emotional time – even when parting ways amicably. After all, this is the end of a huge chapter in their life.

Things can become particularly emotive if there are children too. If you’re a parent who is considering divorce or if you’re already in the middle of divorce proceedings, you might find that there’s an added mental toll.

Your children’s wellbeing

At this time, it’s likely that you’ll be trying to juggle your own feelings as well as those of your children. This is, understandably, a huge change for them, so you’ll need to consider their emotions too.

Back in 2019, there was a significant study by the Institute of Education which revealed that parental separation is more likely to affect the mental health of children aged seven to 14. It was the first major British study that looked at the link between divorce or separation on children’s mental health.

Being aware of how your child is processing this is important. They might feel confused about what’s happening. There’s a chance they’ll think they’re to blame in some way, so it’s important that you and your ex-partner take the time to reassure them that this isn’t the case.

There are resources available to help you guide your child through this period and it’s worth seeking tools and support. You can then approach this in a way that’s appropriate for your child.



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Your mental health

However, it’s also important to remember your own mental wellbeing at this time. As a parent, if you’re struggling or finding that the divorce is making you feel anxious or stressed, which are very common when facing such a significant life change, give yourself permission to address this. By taking the steps to look after your own mental health, you’ll be better placed to care for your children.

Here are some ways that you might want to approach this:

Building a strong support network

You will need a lot of different types of support right now, from practical input from professionals to emotional help from friends and family.

Speak to those you trust and lean on them if you’re feeling stressed of anxious about your divorce. By opening up, you could find that it’s easier to tackle your emotions.

If you want to share your feelings but you’re not ready to do so with someone who’s close to you – or if you simply want to have several options where you can talk about your mental wellbeing – look into support groups in your area. Also, consider therapy if you feel that could benefit you.


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Look at the legal side

There are the legalities to consider too. Speaking to, and working with, child law solicitors will help you to understand the legal process and how it affects your children. By sorting through the technicalities, you may feel more organised both on a practical level, but also on an emotional one.

The impact of parental support on children

By being well supported, you’re in a good place to look after your child’s wellbeing. Taking the pressure off yourself by relying on your network means that you can focus on your child and how they’re navigating this period. This, in turn, can make the process much more manageable.
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Indoor Activities to Help You Relax in Colder Seasons

07/10/2024

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The crisp autumn air and chilly winter winds can make it tempting to hibernate away from the world indoors. But staying at home doesn't have to mean being bored.

There are plenty of enjoyable and relaxing indoor activities to keep you entertained and content during the colder months. In this guide, we’ll share some of our top tips for fun things you can do indoors while you hide away from the cold weather and dark evenings.

Cosy up with a good book or film

One of the most classic ways to spend a winter’s day is to curl up on the sofa with a good book or film.

Whether you prefer a thrilling mystery, a heartwarming romance or a thought-provoking sci-fi novel, there's something out there to suit every taste. You don’t have to enjoy this activity alone either. Invite some of your friends or loved ones around for a movie marathon to share the enjoyment.

If you're feeling particularly indulgent, why not treat yourself to a cosy blanket, a cup of hot chocolate, and a bowl of popcorn?


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Get creative with DIY projects

Another great way to pass the time indoors is to get creative with DIY projects.

There are countless possibilities, from upcycling old furniture to making your own decorations in preparation for the Christmas holidays. If you have a flair for the arts, you could try your hand at painting, sketching or pottery.

Not only is crafting a fun and rewarding activity, but it can also help you to relax and de-stress.

Enjoy digital entertainment and games

In today's digital age, there's no shortage of ways to entertain yourself from the comfort of your own home. Whether you're a fan of gaming, streaming TV shows or listening to podcasts, there's something for everyone.

And if you're looking for a fun and social way to spend your time, consider playing online casino games with friends or family. Just be sure to gamble responsibly and only bet what you can afford to lose.



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Treat yourself to an at-home spa day

Sometimes, all you need is a little self-care to help you relax and recharge. With that in mind, why not treat yourself to an at-home spa day?

You can create a soothing atmosphere by lighting candles, playing soft music and filling the bathtub with warm water. Then, indulge in a face mask, a manicure or an at-home hair treatment. This could be a lovely activity to share with your best friend or partner on a quiet Saturday evening, followed by a tasty takeaway on the sofa.

There are countless ways to enjoy yourself indoors during the colder months. Whether you're looking to relax, be creative or have fun, there's something for everyone.


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Why SUVs are the perfect family car

06/10/2024

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When I first became a parent I drove a 1970's Austin mini, which I loved and cherished but it really wasn't a practical car for a young family, especially as it didn't have airbags and I couldn't safely fit a car seat due to such old seatbelts. Once the radiator gave way I knew it was time to let go and find a more practical solution (although I do hope to have an old mini again in the future at some point). 

Adapting to family life does requires changes in a number of areas, one of the biggest of which is usually the vehicle you drive. Whether you’re welcoming the first addition or adding another, having the right car can make going about family life that little bit easier. Having gone through a range of cars over the past decade including compact car to a bongo van, I have found that SUVs are the most in terms of safety and practicality and here is why

Spacious and comfortable interiors

Perhaps the main draw to SUVs is the space you can benefit from inside. If you’re used to driving hatchbacks and other smaller cars, the metaphorical and literal step up to an SUV will make quite the difference.

Spacious interiors mean the driver, front passenger and back passengers can all enjoy longer journeys in comfort. Even shorter journeys and cruising around town will feel more premium. Options with 5 and even 7 seats are available for added practicality.

More space in the car will be useful if you’re already taking on taxi duties for your kids or if you’re planning on expanding the family down the line.

Extra boot space

Family life comes with lots of ‘things’ such as pushchairs, car seats, carrycots, nappies and emergency supplies – you need a vehicle that can accommodate everything. Even as kids get older, you’ll still need room for holiday luggage, activity equipment and lots more.

Unless you’re willing to upgrade to a van (which has many pro's but also con's), SUVs have the most boot space on offer. For example, the Skoda Kodiaq boasts a whopping 835 litres if you’re using five seats. Smaller crossover SUVs like the new DS3 offer around 350 litres with a standard model.

If you’re tired of playing Tetris with your boot space, upgrade to an SUV.


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Advanced safety features

Safety is likely high on your priority list when looking for a family car, and modern SUVs excel in this department. The elevated driving position in these cars provides improved visibility, allowing you to anticipate road hazards sooner.

Innovative airbag systems, advanced braking systems, lane-keeping assistance, blind-spot monitoring and adaptive cruise control are other features often integrated into modern SUVs. These all help you to avoid collisions and accidents on the road.

Bigger, more solid builds can also prove more durable in crash tests. But we hope it will never need to be tested in a real-life scenario.

Versatility and practicality

Finally, SUVs provide excellent versatility and practicality. They can handle the varied demands of family life, from tackling the school run in an urban environment to heading out into the countryside for a quick getaway.

Four-wheel drive options are particularly useful in the UK’s unpredictable weather. Added grip and stability can make all the difference in ice, rain and heavy wind, keeping you and your family safe.

 

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